Communication is key…and so is trust.

The title of this blog post sad it all for me. There are no gray areas and it is what it is. If you do not know how to effectively communicate, then you are setting yourself up for a lot of arguments and misunderstandings. Failure to communicate, enables people to drum up their own conclusions on whatever it is that they may be wondering is going on inside of your head. Not that it’s any of their business in the first place, but I’ve been trying to be better at revealing some things that’s enough information for nobody to gain any unwarranted anxiety on behalf of simply speaking up. You can allot ego, you can call it controlling, you can call it whatever you want but it’s beat that you call it out loud to the other person that you’re dealing with. Wether it be business, relationships, etc., you have to talk. I do not like to talk much. As much as that may be hard to believe for some lol, I think that I have a hard time communicating properly because I have underlying trust issues that makes me put a wall up around my thoughts and intentions and would much rather the other person see it when it occurs, rather than them waiting for me to just tell them. I don’t know if that’s weird or not, but that’s just how I operate when it comes to communication. I really have to do better on that regard. But on the other end of the stick, what if you communicate properly and the other person fails to receive said communication? I think that’s when it gets frustrating. Ok I’m gone, lol Much Love. ❤️