Before anyone else…
There’s YOU.
Always you.
Before the world pulls you in fifty directions, before responsibilities crowd your mind, before anybody gets a piece of your time or energy — you come first.
My name is Jermy, and I appreciate you for taking a moment to read these words from my heart. I really do hope God continues to make His presence felt in your life — not in loud, dramatic ways, but in those quiet moments where you suddenly feel seen, held, and guided. I pray you prosper in every way that matters… even as your soul prospers.
If there’s one thing this journey has taught me, it’s the power of self-awareness.
Not the Instagram version. Not the “positive vibes only” performance.
I mean the real kind — the kind you earn through honesty, stillness, and choosing to grow.
Self-awareness is what keeps you grounded when your emotions want to take the wheel. It’s what keeps you centered when other people’s moods try to leak into your spirit. It’s what helps you make decisions based on wisdom, not impulse. And trust me, when you learn to stay centered — when you can hear your own voice over the noise — your whole life changes.
Because the truth is simple:
You can’t pour into anyone if you’re empty.
You can’t love anybody well if you abandon yourself.
And you can’t walk in your purpose if you keep shrinking to fit someone else’s story.
So today, remember this:
Before anyone else… choose you.
Not selfishly — but sacredly.
Because choosing yourself is how you stay aligned with God, with peace, and with the person you’re becoming.
Much love,
Jermy